Forgiveness is such a strong
word. It has the ability to set you free in both body and mind. To have
unforgiveness in your heart is to liken it to being in jail. Unforgiveness
makes you its prisoner, you become your own worst enemy. You actually give the
other party a firm hold over you. That person has all the power over you without
even realising it and you find yourself the victim all over again. The
bitterness builds up inside you and it actually makes you sick. To walk around
blindly in the darkness of unforgiveness and not see the beauty of life around
you.
It is all about having a
positive attitude in life. It takes a lot to forgive the other party but in
reality it is more for you than for them. It frees up your mind and releases
all bitterness in your heart. Why do you want to go around being unhappy and
bitter with life? So, somebody upsets you, cheats on you, hurts you and
generally life gives you a hard kick in the butt and gut. How else are we going
to learn life’s lessons, how else are we going to get wise and grow as a
person. Yes, it hurts like crap but eventually forgiving the other party allows
you to move on in life. It gives you the necessary peace of mind.
I have had unforgiveness in
my heart and had to learn to forgive (not necessary to forget) and it felt like
a weight off my shoulder. And it felt great not be bitter and unhappy. It was
hard and took awhile but I did it and so can you.
Forgiveness is freedom. It is
your own choice whether to accept the hurtful deeds or words into your heart.
Do you want to? Or do you want to let it just wash over you like water on a
duck’s back?
Do you want to be the victim or do you want to
be free?
Life is way too short and
interesting to let unforgiveness rule you.
Let it go. Release it all.
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